a great + meaningful story!

A student asks a teacher, "What is love?" The
teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go
to the paddy field and choose the biggest paddy
and come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once
and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the field, go thru first row, he
saw one big paddy, but he wonders.... may be
there is a bigger one later.
Then he saw another bigger one... but may be
there is a even bigger one waiting for him.
Later, when he finished more than half of the
paddy
field, he start to realize that the paddy is not as
big
as the previous one he saw, he know he has
missed the biggest one, and he regretted!!!!
So, he ended up went back to the teacher with
empty hand. The teacher told him, "...this is
love... you keep looking for a better one, but when
later you realize, you have already miss the
person...."
"What is marriage then?" the student asked. The
teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go
to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and
come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once
and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the cornfield, this time he is
careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when
he
reached the middle of the field, he picked one
medium corn that he felt satisfactory, and came
back to the teacher.
The teacher told him, "This time you bring back a
corn.... you look for one that is just nice, and you
have faith and believe this is the best one you
get.... this is marriage."